- You need to talk to one person, not everyone.
- Be the specialist, not the generalist.
- Start with yourself if you have no idea who to start with.
- Know everything possible about the 1 person you are talking too.
- What is their sex, age, martial status, sexual preferences, etc.
- How much does she make, etc.
- Get all the details.
- People will get confused who and what your talking about if you do not pick one person.